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Relocation

Posted on Thu, Jan 31, 2019

If there has been an order for time-sharing, basically saying one parent gets custody and the other parent gets visitation, or any form of dividing up of the child’s time, a parent cannot just unilaterally move a child a significant amount away from another parent. 

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Dissipation of Marital Assets

Posted on Thu, Jan 31, 2019

Many times people will want to try to hide assets or money prior to filing divorce.  This is not wise.  Just because you sold your car to your brother for one dollar, does not mean you got away with something. 

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Attacking a Child Support Arrearage

Posted on Thu, Jan 24, 2019

A child support arrearage is when there is a child support order and the obligor does not pay all or a portion of the amount ordered.  If a supplemental petition to modify that child support order is not filed, the amount owed to the oblige, or the non-custodial parent, is deemed vested.  So how do you get out of a child support arrearage?  As in all areas of the law, everything is a case-by-case basis.  Let’s say there is a custody order and the former wife receives custody of the child in the court order. The former husband has to pay $500 a month.  After the court order, this is for a divorce or a paternity action, the former husband takes actual custody of the child.  Not legal custody, I am talking about actual custody meaning Mom has basically given Dad the child, but there’s been no court order saying so.  That means the current law of the case is that Mom actually has custody, so therefore she would be deemed to have legal custody but Dad has actual custody, meaning the child is actually in his possession.  I cannot tell you how often it occurs that Mom will do this, yet still believe that she should get child support every month.  Truly amazing.  But that is not where I am going with this particular instance. 

Let’s say, again, Dad has actual custody but there’s no court order giving him custody.  He still has a legal child support obligation, but Mom and Dad have agreed that Dad does not have to pay child support while he has the child.  Then after a few years, shockingly, Mom comes back and says she wants all that money back that he was supposed to pay, that would be an arrearage that she would be going to court for. 

The arrearage would normally be vested and there is nothing a person can do about it.  But there is an equitable defense here.  In fact, the Supreme Court has said there are three equitable defenses to a child support arrearage.  Now let’s be clear about what an equitable defense is, it doesn’t mean the arrearage just magically goes away.  It basically means that a court, using this law, can choose to basically ignore the arrearage.  The case on point is Pittman v. Stanjeski.  In Stanjeski, the court found “the following three equitable defenses may be appropriate grounds for relief:  (1) payment -  direct payment is made to the payee because of the exigencies of the family situation or a family emergency; (2) no further obligation to pay support - a minor child reaches majority, marries, enters the armed services, or dies, or a former spouse receiving alimony remarries or dies; or (3) change of custody - a full change of child custody has occurred and the formal custodial parent no longer supports the child or retains fiscal obligations relating to the child.”  The court further found that “there may be other equitable defenses that can be raised based on other types of extraordinary circumstances.  We emphasize that the underlying purpose of this process is to assure the payment of child support for the welfare of the child.”

So theoretically, in the fact pattern discussed, for the entire time that Dad had actual custody of the child, any arrearage accrued should basically be forgiven.  This is not a slam-dunk.  It should be a slam-dunk, but for some reason some trial judges do not act consistent with this.  And that’s where an appeals process would have to take place.  Before appealing, you have to look at the big picture.  How much does an appeal cost versus how much your potential savings would be.  As a side note, Dad cannot seek retroactive child support from Mom.  In other words, Dad as a defense cannot counterclaim that he wants child support for the entire time that he had actual custody of the child.  Dad would have to file what is called a supplemental petition to modify time and child support.  A person cannot seek child support prior to the filing of a supplemental petition.  A child support award can only go back as far as the date a supplemental petition is filed.  So there is no counter if Mom wants to be unreasonable and seek arrearage for a time she did not actually have the child.  You have to rely on the good judgment of the courts. 

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